Some encounters do not begin with words, but with a feeling that gently announces itself. I am Roxanne.
A woman who understands the art of presence, where a glance speaks louder than a sentence and a smile leaves room for imagination.
My femininity lives in my curves, in the way I move, slow down, and allow a moment to breathe.
As a burlesque dancer, I tell stories with my body: sultry, playful, elegant - never rushed, always intentional. My energy is warm and inviting, yet never fleeting.
I am drawn to tension that slowly builds, to subtlety, to connection that needs no explanation.
Those with an eye for nuance feel it immediately. Beneath softness lies depth.
Experience. Insight. And a profound respect for boundaries, freedom, and choice.
These values also guide me as a board member of UTSOPI, and through my book Between Lipstick and Laptop, where I write about womanhood, autonomy, and navigating multiple worlds.
This is not a promise. No label. No fixed storyline.
This is an invitation to feel, to pause for a moment and discover what emerges when elegance and desire meet.
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Whether you're seeking inspiration, connection, or simply a place to be seen and heard – you are welcome.
With love,
Dutch: fluent
French: fluent
English: fluent
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What was the moment you decided: “I’m going to create a community”?
It wasn’t a single moment, but rather a growing feeling. I noticed that many women in the high-class world appeared strong, but often lacked a safe space to truly be themselves. I knew: that space needs to exist. Not just for support, but for growth, depth, and connection.
What makes Étoile Privée unique in your eyes?
It’s a community where style meets substance. We embrace luxury, but we never lose sight of what matters most: a warm, safe environment where you can grow – as a woman, as an entrepreneur, as a human being. We celebrate authenticity, without judgment.
What challenges did you face while building the community?
Visibility was a big one. There’s still a lot of stigma around the world we operate in, even at the high-class level. And I didn’t want to create something superficial – I wanted to build something that truly adds value. That takes time, care, and a strong vision.
What do you hope women feel when they join Étoile Privée?
That they’re coming home. That they’re not alone. That they can show up fully – powerful and vulnerable. And that there’s space for learning, growth, and connection, without masks.
You also write the blogs for the community. Where do you find your inspiration?
From life itself. From conversations, from experience, from sensing what’s needed. Sometimes a gentle reminder about self-care, sometimes a deeper dive into social issues. I write what I would have wanted to read.
What is your dream for the future of Étoile Privée?
That it continues to grow – as a network, as a sisterhood, as a source of strength. And that it becomes an inspiration beyond our field. Because the values we hold – respect, softness, self-love – are universal.
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